My parents raised me with three main phrases to live by: “Life isn’t fair”, “Shit Happens”, and “No one owes you anything”. Those words of wisdom have helped me be a very self-sustaining person, and I’d like to think they also helped be deal well with bad news.
Friday, November 18th I woke up and loaded Facebook to see a friend’s post about his family being evacuated in Reno because of wildfires. I thought it was weird because a) I hadn’t heard anything about fires going on, and b) it’s mid-November… way past fire season.
About 10 minutes later I checked my email as usual, to find a message from my mom saying that our house was gone. Excuse the language, but my only thought was “…what the fuck?”
Immediately I went to news websites in the Reno area, and it only took a few minutes before I found this image:
|2410 Pioneer Dr. up in flames on November 18th, 2011.|
|Our house before the fire.|
That’s our house, where I spent much of my childhood growing up (and is still my parents’ primary residence). At first I was skeptical and thought to myself, “Nah, that can’t be our house. Ours has an upstairs deck on the right side”. But it didn’t take long to notice the unique ski lift pole that we have holding up that upstairs balcony, and I realized that the balcony was already gone.
Needless to say, it’s an ordeal. My step-brother and step-sister live in Reno still, I’m in the San Francisco bay area, my younger brother lives in Los Angeles, and my parents were at their 2nd home in Gettysburg, PA at the time, getting ready to come back to Reno for the holiday season and tax season (they’re CPAs).
There’s nothing we can do, but I still felt restless sitting at my cafe (office) here at home and watching our house in 40-ft flames on the news. So I closed my laptop, walked home, packed a bag, and hit the road to drive the 3.5 hours to Reno just so I can be there for emotional support. As I rolled into town, it occurred to me that no one even knew I was coming, and my parents were on a plane from PA so I couldn’t tell them.
Getting off highway 80, I immediately went up the hill to our neighborhood. Police cars blocked every corner and I was asked a series of questions (and had to show my ID) just to be allowed onto our street. I parked the car and got out to see our front walkway, which now leads to open air and a burned canyon behind it (click photos to enlarge):
|Our front walkway. Still visible: the wall of my brother’s room & our fireplace.|
This house was unique. Built in 1972 (approx), the first owners were avid skiers. The design of the house reflected that, with a Tahoe-cabin look and even an authentic ski lift pole that supported our upstairs balcony. Everyone’s favorite feature, however, was a bridge inside (yes, inside) the front door. As you walked over it, you could look downstairs to our den before descending into the bedroom wing of the house.
My parents divorced when I was 12, and about 18 years ago my step-dad and his kids moved out of their house in Sparks, NV to this one… where it was our first (and only) house as a combined family.
|My mom, Ellen Mann, peering into what remains of our garage and her car.|
Everyone has their memories of this house. My parents still lived there half the year (and half in PA) as their business is in Reno, my step-sister lived there throughout middle school & high school (and a while after), my step-brother lived there until he was 18 (but still returned often… he was there doing laundry & playing our grand piano the night before it burned), my younger brother moved there when I went to college & lived there until 2004 when he then moved to Nashville, and I lived there during summers, holidays, school breaks, many weekends, and went up periodically to visit when I could get the time off work. We made numerous silly home movies, and I wrote & recorded over 100 goofy songs with my step-brother throughout the years in this house.
|my brother and me in 2009 vs. the same fireplace today|
The family is doing fine. Some take it harder than others of course, but everyone is safe (which is all that really matters). Numerous police officers, firefighters, gawking neighbors, news cameras, and family members were around all weekend. My parents were interviewed and on the evening news both Sunday and Monday, and they aired an interview with me on Monday night as well.
The property is blocked off as unsafe (the garage could still collapse more) but firefighters are still people too, so on Saturday they looked the other way and let us roam through the debris for an hour or so and just asked us to be really careful. That was a nice gesture, although some yellow caution tape wasn’t going to stop me from checking everything out.
|what’s left of the grand piano. Passed to my step-dad from his father.|
Thanks to everyone who has shown their concern. Enjoy (lol) the rest of the photos below, and everyone have a happy Thanksgiving and Holiday Season!
|Caughlin fire in Reno, NV on Pioneer Dr.|
|Ray and Ellen Mann talk to Channel 4 News in front of their home|
|Caughlin fire in Reno, NV on Pioneer Dr.|
|my step-dad with our friends in the front entry, vs. the front entry now|
|Radiohead’s “OK Computer” survived the Caughlin fire on November 18, 2011.|